own it.

something that has been irking me:
using your perception of my needs as an excuse for your poor behavior.

case 1.
"it seems like you would be happier without a roommate."
... yes. i would be happier without a roommate. most people would. but that is not a good reason to give the person you are leaving in financial turmoil because you want to fully embrace your new lifestyle as a freeloading 'artist'. ugh.


case 2.
"you did say you wanted me to date other people so i would leave you alone."
... Yes again, i did say that. but there are two flaws with this. how does this new girl feel about that? i bet it doesn't feel good to discover she's a rebound, and solely at old girlfriend's request. and two, leave me alone, as in, stop creeping around my house uninvited. not being a sullen jerk to me at work while being overly friendly and chatty with our other coworkers.

and now for something different, a poor quality picture of my opening night dress-up. trust me, i was adorable.